Many young people have trouble communicating with their parents.However,there are some useful tips to help solve this problem.
First,make a list of the things you and your parents disagree about most.With each of these things,try to find an answer acceptable to both you and your parents.It is no good for you to require everything to go your way.You have to be ready to change a little if you want to them to change.
Second,talk to your parents when it is convenient for them.Rememmber that your parents may have to work long hours and this can make them tired,so be patient with them.
Third,listen to what your parents have to say.How can you expect them to listen to you if you are not ready to listen to them?In sddition,your parents were once young like you,so they understand your situation better than you expect.
Finally,if you do not get a satisfactory result,try not to get too angry.Talk with your parents and find out their reasons.Part of growing up is learning to live with these kinds of disagreements,and learning to understand another person's way of looking at things.
With a little hard work,you can learn to communicate better with your parents.
许多年轻人与父母交流有问题,然而,这里有一些有用的贴士帮助解决此问题。
首先,对大多数与父母不一致的问题列个清单,对于每一个问题,努力找出彼此接受的答案,对你而言每件事情都按你的方式处理是不好的。如果你想要他们改变,你自己就要改变。
第二,他们方便时跟他们谈谈,记得父母亲可能工作了很长几个小时,这可能使他们疲惫,所以要耐心的沟通。
第三,倾听父母所说的,假如你不听他们的那你怎么期待他们听你诉说?此外,父母亲曾经是年轻过来的,所以他们比你所期待的更理解你的状况。
最后,如果你没有得到一个满意的结果,不要生气,跟父母谈谈找出原因,成长的过程就是学会去和对立相处的过程,也是学会理解他人看事物方式的过程。
随着一点点努力,你就能学会更好地跟父母亲交流了。
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